What hurts is the betrayal of trust, the undermining of a presumed covenant between two loving partners, and the overturning of mutually agreed upon expectations which those partners have of each other. That is an awareness seemingly lost on the shows two guests who speak out against adultery.
To identify, memories and apply 7 Basic Keys for a strong and happy marriage and secure children.
A preacher, before marrying a couple, once said, "I'd rather have a funeral than a wedding. When you bury someone it stays done. He had seen so many marriage break-ups.
He asked, "Are these people committed to make it work - no matter what? Divorce has reached epidemic stages in the US and Australia. It has happened during our lifetime, for example: In - 1 in marriages ended in divorce.
In - 14 in marriages ended in divorce. In - in marriages ended in divorce. Divorce has tripled since In an article, Too Many Divorces, Too Soon, noted anthropologist, Margaret Mead, showed how selfishness and growing irresponsibility destroys half of all marriages - and many of the children they produce.
Writing in the February Redbook magazine, she said: In our generation divorce has become a part of the American way of life We no longer deeply believe that two people who have made the choice to marry should necessarily try to weather the storms that shake any vital, intimate relationship.
Instead, more and more, our answer to a difficulty in marriage is: All too often the motivation for changing marriage partners in such circumstances is the hope of finding someone who will please me - do things my way - meet my standards.
If both husband and wife have this selfish, immature "me-first" attitude, someone is certain to be sadly disappointed. The arrival of a child often triggers the crisis.
Immature young couples who have not really learned how to give themselves to "living for the other" cannot cope with the pressure a baby creates. Unprepared for parenthood, two young people who have become very close may see the new baby as an interloper.
Or, if they are already restless, the baby may become just one more obstacle to pleasure and freedom. The mother is permanently stuck at home. The father is almost equally confined-or goes out alone.
There is no money now for pleasure and almost nowhere the young couple can go for amusement with the baby. Then our current relief that a speedy divorce is the way out of the dilemma begins to take effect. These being freedom from responsibility, a chance to get away, longing for better opportunities in life and a way out of their unhealthy situation.
Couples who separate end up with deep hurts. When there are children and there are millionsthey suffer the most. In addition to the millions who actually separate, many couples share a house and children but do not actually have a real home and marriage. Children from such families suffer in many of the same ways that children do whose parents actually separate.
All these tragedies do not have to happen they can be prevented. Learning and applying seven basic concepts will enable any couple to build a happy, stable and secure home - a home which cannot be destroyed.
The Bible is God's rulebook and instruction manual for marriage.Detailed Summary of Othello, Act 4, Scene 1 Page Index: Enter Othello and Iago. Iago continues his psychological torture until Othello falls into a trance. Enter Cassio.
During a revival meeting I was recently in at my church, the guest Pastor said “the wife is the Holy Spirit of the home”. This Pastor had been married for more than 20 years and had previously talked about times in his marriage where his wife stopped him and corrected him when he was going down some wrong paths or about to make some wrong decisions.
Adultery hurts children. Adultery does grievous harm to an innocent party—children.
Adultery does grievous harm to an innocent party—children. “Because children are right in the thick of it, in the intimacy of the family home broken by cheating on promises, darkened by . In honor of Infidelity Hurts Awareness Day, please take a stand, register, and spread the news!
If you are unable to attend on May 5, the replay will be available until May 19 to those who have registered. Long after the events that created them, past hurts or emotional wounds can afflict people's lives and disrupt or impair the quality of their lives.
Jesus heals past hurts, just as he heals bodily wounds and illnesses. The Bible and experience have taught us much about this subject. What If a Spouse Cheats? Most states define adultery as “sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than their spouse”, however this definition can vary from state to state.
In North Carolina for example, adultery is defined as any sexual relations between a man and a woman who are not married and cohabitating together, whether legally married to someone else or not.